48 Signs Of Male Attraction

Signs Of Male Attraction

Signs Of Male Attraction: 48 Physical and Non-Physical Signs Of Attraction Men Project Toward Women

The field of science has uncovered a number of sexual attraction indicators – signs that can’t be explained away or misunderstood. And, in order to know when men are interested in them, women need to know what the signs of attraction are. After all, by picking these cues up, you’ll know when you need to engage with a prospective suitor and when you shouldn’t. No doubt that learning these signs of attraction can save you a lot of heartbreak and grief.
First, what you have to understand is that there are both physical and emotional signs to look for. However, there are also an array of other signs to watch for… things that you wouldn’t think are signs of attraction. They’re noted under their respective categories, but do give you helpful insight into how.

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16 Physical Signs Of Attraction Men Often Project When Interested In Women

1 – Eye Contact (Staring)

According to body language experts, making eye contact with a person you’re interested in helps in engaging them. Scientists say how a person looks at you speaks volumes in terms of sexual attraction. Watch where his eyes dart toward? Is it to your mouth? Is it your hair? Are you seeing his eyes on your breasts? Is he watching your hands as you hold something? If so, he may be picturing that you’re holding his hand.

When it comes to eye contact, it’s important to remember that they are the window into a person’s soul. Remember your eyes speak volumes – when you’re happy, sad, angry or whatever.

2 – Voice Tone

One of the hardest things to pick up on is a man’s tone of voice. In the past, men spoke with a deep tone to give a decisive ending to sentences they spoke while women spoke with a high note at the end as if they’re asking questions. This isn’t true any longer.

Today, men speak “Valley Girl” tones – something that came about during the 1980s from women. And, during casual conversation this often occurs. However, when a man wants to be more intimate or close to someone, they’ll go back to the deep vocal tones.

3 – Man Touches Himself More Often

Get your head out the gutter! This doesn’t mean what you may think it means. When a man is interested in a woman, he may begin stroking his face more often or rub his shoulder or the top part of his thigh. He may cross one arm across his chest while squeezing and rubbing his shoulder. The move is subtle but is a clue to his attraction towards a lady.

The self-touching is all about keeping himself groomed and appearing nice for a lady. It’s a kind of behavior known as “displacement”, and, according to various studies, a man who increases his self-touching is a sign that he’s a bit uncomfortable near a woman (not in a bad way). If he’s touching his hair – using his fingers to lightly brush through his hair. He may feel flustered and a little unsure of himself.

Just think of this as another non-verbal way he’s trying to tell you, “Hey, I like you”.

Special Note: If a man you’re talking to strokes your hair before a relationship has been established, you may want to back away. This person may be a bit too aggressive or unable to properly react in a social way.

4 – Copying Your Behaviors/Moves

One of the biggest signs of attraction is copying a person’s moves… although it’s generally done on a subconscious level. If you’re interested in a guy, watch what he does. Is he mirroring your movements? Does he move in his seat when you do? Do you touch your hair and then he touches his own?

According to scientists, this level of copying is a throwback from the animal days when movements were copied to appear less threatening. It makes a person appear more accessible to the other person. And, this mirroring of one’s patterns tends to happen when people are deep into a conversation with another person. Again, it’s done on a subconscious level.

Therefore, if you notice he’s copying your body language, it’s a safe bet that he’s got a thing for you. If a man can recognize himself in you, the deeper his attraction is going to be.

5 – Smiling

A mouth can speak volumes without sound ever coming out. If a man looks in your direction and smiles, it’s quite possible that he’s interested in you. Of course, this can happen even when there’s no intention of being flirty. The best way to find out for sure is note the frequency at which he is smiling at you. If he flashes a smile more in your general direction than anyone else, chances are he’s got a thing for you.

And, if he smiles at you while you happen to lock eyes, he’s got a definite sexual attraction going in.

If you start to talking with him and he’s smiling from ear-to-ear and got a blush happening, you can rest assured that it’s making his day you’re talking to him.

6 – Flirting

When it comes to flirting, there is a fine line to watch for. While it does make the list for key signs of attraction, you need to understand that the level of flirting that’s done is dictated by the environment you are in.

For instance, a guy who’s flirty during work may not be all that he seems to be. This kind of flirty should be more playful than suggestive. The attentions needs be more on the subtle compliments regarding your physical appearance… nothing overly dirty.

However, if you’re in a club or bar, flirting can be a bit sexual but not in an aggressive manner. There needs to be some playfulness behind it.

7 – Touching Playfully

What does it mean by touching playfully? If you just met a man who’s rubbing your leg or back or is rubbing with any kind of pressure, it’s a sign that he’s looking for something more than just a casual get to know you. If there is no intimacy established between you, it can make you feel uneasy because of its over-sexual nature. Therefore, it should be avoided until the time is right.

A playful touch is one that’s light and spontaneous – it’s something that happens quickly. It’s usually a quick touch of his fingertips on your arm or leg or when you’re both laughing about something. Think of a playful touch as an electrical current going through your body.

A big sign of attraction, one that goes beyond flirting, is a man touching your hair and stroking it all the way down. Of course, you need to show him that you’re okay with his touching you by touching him back – it’s a great way to establish a sexual connection between the two of you.

8 – Profusely Sweating

When talking to a guy, do you noticing him scratching at his palms? Or, is he wiping them subconsciously on his clothes. It may be that your being around him is making him both excited and nervous. Have you noticed his scent is alluring? If so, that’s because the body’s endocrine system is revved up, which causes the body to excessively sweat. Sweating is a sure sign of being nervous.

9 – Fidgeting

When a man has an interest in a woman he is talking to, he may fidget a bit. Perhaps he is fixing his clothing to ensure it’s just right, or he’s playing with the zipper or buttons on his clothing. If he wears glasses, he may keep pushing them up to ensure they don’t fall off. He may even fidget with items such as a drinking glass or coin. All of these are signs that he’s nervous around you. As time goes on, he’ll become less nervous about being around you and stop fidgeting as much or completely.

10 – Stammering and Stuttering

Some men, especially the shy ones, have a hard time talking to a lady they deem is out of their league. They may be nervous talking to her and may stammer or stutter. This comes from the concern that the other person is evaluating them. Here’s a hint: if they didn’t stammer so much, it would mean they didn’t care how you felt about them.

11 – Blushing

Yes, ladies… men do blush too when they are in the presence of a woman they like. So, if man is talking to you with a bit of color in his cheeks, you can rest assured that he’s feeling some attraction toward you. Along with the blushing comes bright red lips and really white eyes… signs that the attraction is there for him.

12 – Whispers Sweet Nothings

If a man starts to whisper into your ear, after the initial conversation and time has passed, it generally means he’s looking to move the relationship to a new level – an intimate level.

13 – Grooming Himself

A guy who’s interested in dating or in a particular woman will do everything he can to look his best. He may start fixing his hair or straighten his clothing… he may even brush dirt (lint) off his clothing. The idea is to look is very best whenever he’s around a lady he wants to be involved with.

14 – He’s Evading Your Personal Space

If you notice a man is evading your personal space, trying to get closer to you, he may be sending the signal that it’s exactly what he wants… to be closer to you. Watch how close he gets to you. If you see that he’s inching his way closer and closer, chances are he’s trying to let you know that he’s interested and wants to be in your personal space as much as you’ll allow him. If you’re interested in him too, consider making a move in his direction. If neither of you back away, it’s a surefire sign that there’s a love connection happening.

15 – Hand Comparisons

It’s a subtle gesture, but a man who compares his hand to yours is actually trying to increase the level of intimacy between the two of you. Reality check ladies: he really doesn’t care how big your hand is to yours. He just wants to get closer to you.

16 – Opening Doors For You

Men can be old-fashioned creatures, which is fine to many women. Men know that women love to have the door held open for them. Therefore, if a man does this, you can rest assured that he’s letting you know he cares about you. Bear in mind that even if you like it, some men may opt not to do it because he wants to show you that he’s respectful of the independence you desire. Thus, you should not use this sign alone to gauge whether or not he likes you.

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6 Key Non-Physical Signs Of Attraction To Watch Out For

1 – Remembering The Little Details

A man who has a sexual attraction to you will remember even the little things you say. To him, those things that are important to you are important to him. If you tell him that you like hot chocolate without marshmallows and whipped cream and he really likes you, he’ll remember that you like hot chocolate without any whipped cream and marshmallows. A man who has a physical attraction to you will remember these important details.

He’s got you on his mind, and he’ll do what he can to keep conversations going to learn more about you.

2 – Prohibiting Other Folks Into The Circle

When a man wants to be alone with you – completely alone – he’ll do whatever he can to ensure that other people are not around you. A key sign in sexual attraction is when a guy does everything he can to talk to you without anybody around you.

3 – Jealousy and Behavioral Changes

When you’re talking to other guys, does he appear to get jealous or a bit annoyed? If so, then it may be because he’s into you. He may act as if he’s not caring, but he’s likely to keep you within his eyeshot to see if you have an interest in the other guy.

If you mention another guy during a conversation with him, he may become cold toward you. If a guy acts a bit jealous, chances are that he is very jealous. He may even make fun of the guy to get you to see him in a better light. Some non-verbal jealous clues to keep in mind include: teeth gritting, grimace, change in facial expression, crinkle between eyebrows, blank expression, etc.

4 – Behavioral Changes When You’re Around Him or Coming Toward Him

A man’s body language and behavior your chance when he notices you. Perhaps he’ll act all nonchalant as if nothing about you bothers him. Does he act all big and bad around his friends but get silent when you show up? Or, is he silent with his friends and suddenly talkative when you’re around? Yep, these are signs that you are under his skin.

5 – Overly-Protective

When a man has interest in a lady, he starts becoming protective of her… regardless of the reason why. If you’re cold, he’ll give you his jacket, which is definitely an old gestures but a real surefire sign that he’s into you. If you’re walking where it’s crowded, he may step in front of you to ensure you have space.

6 – Teasing

Most men have a tendency to tease women. However, what ladies don’t really understand about the teasing is that it’s a way to hide a man’s insecurity, anxiety and nervousness. Playful teasing, stuff that’s done in good taste, can be endearing today as it was in junior high and high school. Light-hearted teasing – teasing that happens when it’s in good taste – is a sign of that he wants to be friends and maybe even more.

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conversation12 Small Talk and Conversation Signs Of Attraction To Watch Out For

That first conversation you have with a man can be difficult… not just for you but for him too. It’s not possible to hold a conversation with someone without constantly thinking about it and coming up with things to keep the conversation interesting and going. An interesting conversation will take work. Of course, if you’ve been talking to a guy on a regular basis, there may be more behind the talks than the casual conversation and friendship.

How, by conversations alone, are you to know if the man you just met or the guy you’ve regularly been talking to is really interested you?

1 – He’s Asking You Personal Questions

When he’s talking to you, do you find him asking you some personal questions, especially in the initial conversation? If that’s going on, it’s generally because he’s got a crush on you and needs to know if you’re even available to chase after. If he’s asking if you have a boyfriend or something personal of that nature, he’s definitely got a crush.

2 – He’s Trying To Find Out If You’re Single

Many men won’t beat around the bush, and will ask a girl he’s interested if she’s single. Other men, however, think asking directly is rude. Instead, he may ask you about various topics – movies (what you saw and who with), your last vacation (did you go with anyone), etc. They’re subtle but these questions can let him know if you’re romantically available.

3 – He’s Trying To Extend The Conversation

A huge sign that a man is into you is when he does what he can to keep you from leaving him by stretching out the conversation. Does it appear that you’ve run out of things to talk about but he’s looking for ways to keep that initial conversation going? Or, does he need to leave but hesitates as if he wants to say something more? If so, then chances are he’s trying everything he can to stay around you more or may be working up the courage to get your number.

4 – He’s Subtly Asked You To Go Out With Him

When you’re talking to a guy, does he suggest going out for coffee or a local cafeteria due to time to spare? Men who ask women out for the smaller things may be trying to find out if this “small date” should lead to a more “official date”.

5 – He’s Asking If He Can See You Once More

If you’ve been talking to a guy, and he brings up the topic of seeing you once more, then he’s probably smitten by you. Men don’t generally ask to see women again if they’re not that interested in her. They may if they decide to try and second chance; but, most times, he’s only asking because he’s got an interest in the lady.

6 – He Wants To Stay In Touch and Does Reach Out To You

A man who really wants to see a lady again will ask her for her number or social media profile. Of course, if he does this first thing after saying hi, you may want to take a step back. However, if after talking together for a time, he’s probably asking because he genuinely wants to know more about you.

And, once you give it, he may reach out to you within a couple of days. If he’s reaching out to you on a regular basis, then he’s definitely got a crush on you.

Note: Be wary of men who constantly call you every hour. This can be a bad sign.

7 – He’s Offering Up Compliments

When it comes to compliments, they can be extremely personal. Is the guy you’re talking to offering up a compliment about your smile, hair or eyes? If so, he’s hinting on the fact that you’re who he is falling for.

8 – He Makes Remarks On Your Similarities

As you talk to someone, you may notice that you have similar characteristics, hobbies and jobs. When a man is talking to you, he’s making a mental note of these similarities. He’s looking to see if there are things that make you two compatible to one another.

Note: Be wary of men who constantly agree with or nod their head yes to everything you say. This could actually mean he’s into you for the wrong reasons.

9 – He Wants Your Approval

Men will look to see if you approve of what he’s doing or saying. He wants to know that he’s got your attention, looking at you first to determine what reaction you are having toward him. If you approve of what he’s doing, he’s going to continue the behavior to ensure you stay interested.

10 – He Acts Concerned

If you have a look on your face that causes him some concern, he may ask you what’s wrong and if you’re feeling okay. Constantly making sure that you’re okay is a sign that he’s into you.

11 – He Quickly Gets Rid Of The Distractions

When a guy likes you, he’ll want to make sure his entire focus is on you… and not his phone or another person. If the guy you’re with seems to ignore phone calls or say “Hi and bye” to his friends, chances are he just wants to spend all the time he can with you.

12 – He Tries To Find Ways To Be Around

When a guy has a crush on you, he may ask you a lot of questions. In his mind, he’s trying to find ways to always be around you. Does it seems like wherever you go, he’s there? If he’s learned your schedule, you can take it as a sign that he wants to know more about you and be around you more often.

The Miscellaneous Signs Of Attraction: The Other Things A Guy Would Do To Show You He’s Interested In You

1 – Buys You Drinks

If a guy really wants to be with you, he’ll pony up the cash when you get thirsty to buy you a drink. He may also get your smaller gifts – candy and other sweets – to let you know that he cares about you without it being so obvious.

2 – Walks Along Side You

According to various research, men who are romantically interested in women will slow down their pace of walking to match the woman’s speed. If a man is walking alongside you, talking and show other things of interest, you can rest assured that he is interested in you.

3 – Offering Assistance

Is there a problem you need help with? If so, then he may offer to help you with the issue… not just to fix your problem but to spend more time with you. Yes ladies! This sign of attraction is a two-fold situation. He resolves the problem you have, looking like the hero, and he spends time with you too.

4 – His Friends Are Teasing Him

When a guy is around his friends, and they see you, they may start to razz him about it subtly. Consider the way his friends act when you’re around. If they punch him or start to smile or smirk, they know he’s got a crush on you.

5 – He Lets You Know That He’s Available

Men generally don’t let women know that they’re available unless they want that woman to be his. If he’s clearly told you he’s not dating anyone, chances are he wants you to be his girlfriend.

6 – He Doesn’t Treat You Like Everybody Else

When a man really likes you, he’s going to treat you better than other friends he’s with. He’ll do more for you or become more or less talkative when you’re around. He may try to impress you about things of himself. He may not act like his normal self and that’s because he’s got a thing for you.

7 – He’s Just Being Friendly

If a guy is into you, he’ll do everything he can to pretend you’re best friends from the get-go. The idea is that you’re comfortable with him. He doesn’t want you to feel trapped or creeped out by him.

8 – Before He Leaves, He Looks At You Once More

Lastly, if you really want to know if a guy likes you, consider how he leaves you. If, when leaving, he stops and looks at you once more – to garner the eye contact – then you can rest assured that is interested in you and would like to see you again. He may also be hoping that you’re looking at him so you can lock eyes once more.

What His Body Language Is Telling You About His Level Of Attraction

When it comes to romance, your mouth doesn’t have to move for your body to speak. And, that means every part of your body will talk. Your feet, your lips, your eyes, your hands, etc. What they say can either bring a man to you or make go running for the heels.

1 – Feet

Did you know that your feet are the biggest culprits in giving away how you feel about a person? Most folks when attempting to control the language of their body focus more on facial expressions, arm and gestures and their posture. What they hardly keep in mind is what their feet and legs are doing.

If you’re talking with a guy and his feet point toward you, it means he’s really interested in you. And, if his feet are pointing toward an exit or away from you, chances are he’d rather be anywhere but with you. Again, it’s all done subconsciously… he never knows he’s doing it.

Keep in mind that spreading his legs and feet may also be a way for him to show you that he’s got something to offer you. Yes, it’s shallow but that’s how many men are… shallow.

2 – Eyes

You already know that the eyes are the window to the soul and that it’s one of the biggest signs of attraction. If he looks at you for more than a few seconds at a time, looks away and steals a glance again, he’s got an interest in you. And, if you happen to be talking to him and his eyes are dilated, he’s interested in what you have to say.

Some men can’t help how infatuated they become when talking to you, leading him to stare deep into the eyes. If his eyes shine bright when you come around, chances are he’s happy you’re going to talk to him.

Now, if a person looks away and over theirs or your shoulder, it’s a sign that they would rather be elsewhere than where they are.

3 – Posture

Humans are like animals – they puff out and appear larger to show dominance. Men often act like an animal with their legs open, their hands on their hips and chin up held high.

If a person is faced toward you with an open posture – no crossed arms upon their chest – they are giving you the sign that they’re receptive to you. If they lean into you, as if to invade your space, they’re letting you know that they want to reduce the amount of space between the two of you.

4 – Lips

Men will watch your lips to see if you’re giving them a sign of attraction. The sign is going to be subtle, which includes biting your lower lip or licking it. If he stares at your lips, it’s a sign that he wants kiss you.

5 – Flared Nostrils

There are two reasons why a person’s nose flares:

• Feelings of fight or flight
• Feelings of excitement and anger

If things are going good between the two of you, most likely the nose flaring is due to excitement.

6 – Raised Eyebrows

When a man raises his eyebrows, it may be because you said or do something and a sign that he likes you. Sure, it’s not a definite sign of attraction, as it may be a friendly expression. Thus, never look at raised eyebrows alone as a surefire sign that he’s into you. Be sure you find other signs to go along with it.

Special Note: What You Should Understand About Physical Interaction & Signs of Attraction

The reality behind physical interaction is that it is a huge sign of attraction but it’s not the one true sign of it as many folks would have you to believe. Keep in mind that some folks are just naturally physical beings – whether it’s with a man or a woman. They may touch your hand or harm or give you a bear hug without wanting to move things to another level. Before acting, you need to know what a person’s intentions are so don’t rely on just physical signs as a clue that they like you.


You understand how the signs of attraction works, but in what way should you respond. If a guy expresses two or more signs toward you, do you respond in kind? The whole dating process can be confusing. After all, you have to determine if you have any interest in him yourself. While it can be gratifying to be the object of a man’s wish, not returning it will only lead to problems. However, if you do find yourself attracted to him as well, the best thing you can do is mirror his behavior to show him that you’re also attracted to him.

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