Why Men Lie: 7 Important Reasons Men Will Tell Women Lies Instead Of The Truth
The biggest part of any relationship is trust. A woman that can trust her man will do everything they can not to jeopardize it – and most common relationship issues won’t become an issue. When women list the attributes they want from a man, they often note “honesty” as one of the first words.
However, the reality is that men will lie. While women do the same, men do it more often and for various reasons. If women knew the real reason why men told lies, it might help in keeping them from being hurt and spot the signs sooner. If women know why men will lie, it’ll help them steer clear of the rotten apples. And, by knowing why men lie can help women to feel secure about the relationship and ensure less fights down the road.
He Believes He’s Helping
The real wording is that he’s looking to avoid that fight. For instance, women often ask men if what they’re wearing makes them look fat. He knows he cannot win here, regardless of the answer. Therefore, he lies. The reality is that women forget that regardless of what she wears, he think she’s beautiful… even if he’s never worn the dress before or a hundred times before. This is a bullet he’s been able to dodge.
He’s Ego Is Fragile
A man’s ego can be overly fragile and large. In fact, it may be too big to tell you he’s got feeling for you but fragile enough to inform you that he’s still a human being. Think of Neil Simon: he wrote Come Blow Your Horn and, after writing it, he told his wife he was working on another play. He really wasn’t and was overly embarrassed.