Does He Really Love Me? 6 Key Tips How To Know Your Boyfriend Wants To Say, ‘I Love You”
When you’re in a long-term relationship, you may begin to wonder when that elusive “L” word will crop up. Perhaps you’ve dropped hints here and there or made suggestions that would get your significant other to finally say it. However, the reality behind your other half saying the “L” word is this: they won’t say it until they’re feel good and ready to say it.
And, when your boyfriend is ready to say it, he’ll begin dropping clues to see how you feel about it. What clues? Well, every guy is different in the clues they use, but there are several key ones you can keep your eye out for to find out if he’s ready to say, “I Love You”.
6 Primary Ways A Man Will Indicate He Wants To Say, “I Love You”
Constantly Staying In Contact
When a man is in love, he’ll do whatever he can to be next to her. And, when it’s not face to face, he’ll call, email, text or instant message her so he stays in touch with her.
Talks About Intimate Details
Men, as a whole, have problems talking about the serious issues in their life as well as important experiences and memories. However, a man who starts opening up about them to a woman is generally in love. If this is done on the first date, this isn’t love. If a relationship has been going on for about six months, this is a sign that love is in the air.
Some examples include sharing divorce details, stories about his childhood, his dreams, his ambitions and talks about his mom that continue beyond one or two times. If there are no mommy problems, he’s letting you know that he’d like to marry someone similar to her.
He Doesn’t Mind Taking Chances With You
Men in love will take chances with her – getting out on the dance floor, baking classes, library trips, etc. If something takes him from his comfort zone with a lady, chances are he’s in love with her. If he agrees to go to the ballet, chances are he’s taken with her.
He Treats Her Like A Queen
When a man goes out of his way to make you feel like you can’t do anything wrong or ensure your protection, then he’s trying to show you that he’s in love with you.
Using The “L” Word Randomly
While he won’t say the word “love” right to you, he may say it in conversations such as, “I love that movie too” or “That’s one of the things I love too”, or “I’d love to hang out with you again”. If you hear the word love keep cropping up, he’s looking to see how you’d react.
He Says “I Love You”
When he says those three little words, women often don’t believe it, even if it’s the truth. Men don’t say these words unless they mean it. And, if they do, congrats ladies… he really is in love with you.
What Does It All Mean?
When you want to know if a man is in love with you, just remember the phrase, “actions speak louder than words”. You can tell how a man feels about you by the way he behaves and speaks when you’re together. Of course, women have a real problem second-guessing these things about what men say and do. But, the reality is that women know what they feel in their heart about how a man feels about them.
If you’re not sure though or don’t trust yourself, is your man dropping any of the above hints? If so, then let him say, “I love you” when he’s ready and you’ll never question his feelings again.
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